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In the Wild

📱 On a dating profile
"looking for my kindred spirit — someone who also thinks a 9pm grocery run counts as a date"
📚 In a book club group chat
"okay who else cried at that ending?? pretty sure we're kindred spirits at this point"
💬 Introducing a new coworker
"five minutes into the interview I just knew — total kindred spirit, she gets the chaos of this job"

🤔 Everyone Gets This Wrong

People assume "kindred spirit" has to mean a romantic soulmate — but it's much bigger than that. A kindred spirit can be your best friend, your grandmother, or a stranger you talked to for ten minutes at a wedding. It just means someone who shares your outlook or feelings, no blood relation (or romance) required.

✨ Fun Fact Worth Stealing

"Kindred spirits" owes a lot of its staying power to Anne of Green Gables — in the 1908 novel, Anne declares that "kindred spirits are not so scarce as I used to think," and the line has been quietly doing PR for the phrase for over a century.

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Use It Today

  1. Reach for it the moment someone just "gets" you — a new friend, a mentor, even a stranger in line who laughs at the same things you do.
  2. Use "kindred spirits" for shared vibe, not shared blood — you don't need to be related, or even close, to qualify.
  3. Try it as a plain adjective, too — "a kindred soul," "kindred organizations," anything that shares your nature or interests.
  4. Say it in one warm breath — KIN-drid — like the word itself is giving you a hug.

This word has been quietly describing our closest friendships for centuries. Uncover where "kindred" actually comes from — and how Spanish, French, and German all describe that same soul-deep click.

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